BEING MACHO🤢

                                                "BEING MACHO"- a pathetic bravado

                

From a decade Bollywood has consistently maintained zenith position when it comes to serving trash on disposable plates of punch lines and dialogues to the Indian masses. They have been incessantly doing that for the past ten years and even in future indian cinematography placing a hault on this fungus-coated content seems to be a distant possibility , but A major chunk of fault lies here on the part of Indian masses especially among the youth who are embracing such noxious content with open arms. It's quite of a mother-wit that for any buisness to reach at apex it needs to establish an umbilical cord with its customers and for doing that the buisness is ready to stoop to any methodology irrespective of how gross it gets. Bollywood has not only been able to establish that cord with its viewers but also made sure that it remains robust throughout the decade by embellishing it's creation with such creepy stuffs and that are being reciprocated with massive response indicating its wide acceptance among  youth. A dialogue/punchline that was added just to deliver ephimeral thrill has unfortunately left a deep impression on your mind and heart thereby clouding your viewpoint and decisions. 

" Ek ladka aur ladki kabhi dost nhi hoskte" a trash serving from KJO CREATIONS that bought a massive change in the equations between two opposite gender. 

"Palat"--  if a girl turn's back and looks at you ,  it implies she is entrapped in net of infatuations. No-one even tried to place a slightest effort to question the credibility of this very logic , the girl turned back maybe because she wants to cross the road, maybe she is fascinated with clowns and puppies and you remind her of the same,  zillionth of legit reasons can be listed  , infatuation theory being the last one of them. Now coming back to the topic of the hour , a masculine pestilience - "BEING MACHO" that has crippled the mindset of entire community of men and boys

Macho" a word that enraptured hell lot of eyes after its essence was openly declared in 2008

Blockbuster - " Rab ne bnadi jodi" , where a loud and clear call was made that if a man tends to take backseat or if he shows a bit concern by holding handbags of her female friend than a big question gets imposed on his manly nature, until and unless a man exhibit sense of machoness within his personality, all his masculine rights gets jeopardized.

Recently I was having an conversation with a pillock acquaintance who was lecturing me regarding the essence of macho and the pre-requisites for exhibiting men'ly traits . As per his stupid analogy until and unless one resorts to smoking/drinking followed with a well body structure backed with beard and rough voice , browny points for some  scars  on  face pointing toward your aggressive nature , roping in women till then will be as hard as grabbing govt job by a general/non-reserved candidate" in short it's herculean task and next to impossible.

Well here's a needle to burst this fallacious theory-- As per psychologist HINDA in a survey being conducted by Pennsylvania University regarding selection of potential partners , majority(83%)  of girls selected men with fine features , decent voice and coherent communication skills over  those with build muscles , rough voices  and rugged features . The feminine gender consider the former community of men to be more faithful and loyal as compared to the later category. Please note that here my intentions of stating this theory were not about making contumelious or discriminatory comments regarding any community of men but simply to drag all the flag bearer of machoism from their respective cloud cuckoo's land back to reality 

Do animals and apparels decide your macho nature?

To an outsider this theory might appear a bit mawkish but unfortunately the newer standards of enrolling in index of machoness induces the very criteria of animal you pet and clothes occupying your wardrobe. We discard the very option of pink shade without even giving a try just merely because it is associated with the womanly world , a peril thought that has infested our brains with the fact that how pernicious can choosing pink shade be for your masculine nature , that how it can induce effinate characteristics within your very personality and consume all your testosterone  thereby making you a transgender!!! Quite absurd isn't it😂. Well the worse part is yet to be unfolded when someone from my acquaintance pointed that how a pet plays imperative role for indicating your gender . Adoring puppies , cats and parrots are feminine qualities that a man should renunciate. Until and unless labradors , German shepherds and bulldogs are the pets in the vicinity of a man till then enlabelling him with masculine title will be a a heinous act. My mind often slides into a  disquietude state on witnessing such bantering standards that are nothing more than meretricious persiflage but are strongly recokend in our society

Is being macho and being being brave are the same?

Many of my comrades are perplexed and tend to equate pseudo menism with braveness. Sorry to burst this bubble of delusion but being macho and being brave are poles apart. . We pretend to show our bravado through means of machoness but the reality is that all of us are engulfed in our own fears and insecurities therefore whenever we tend to cross roads with someone who is more superior than us in every aspect, your facade machoism tends to loose it's strength and sooner or later follows a feeling of self doubt , rancourness , hatred engulfing you fully

As a father/brother,  I will always prefer a guy for my daughter/sister who speaks for her , stand beside her like a rock of zibraltar even in the dire/worst of worst situations , irrespective of  his built or  baritone ,  as long as he readily supports her during her mental and emotional crunch and refuse to leave her hand acting as her crisis in chief , for me  that boy will be her ideal match and not someone with rugged well built phsyique that might be known for being vocal with the locals but posses a damaged sense of loyalty, love and compassion derelicting my offspring  during her rough and tough days.

Is being macho that bad?

It's okay even if you a have besotted feeling for machoism or you enamor it , I won't judge you and niether it is a sin . However things starts messing up when we are viewing the entire world with same standard of machoness. What we need right now Is a bit modification in the lenses being used by us for setting criteria of machoism for men's society

Let's reinvigorate a new definition of machoness where a man can wear pink apparel without the fear of being judged is  machoness , a man can take a backseat and allow her female counterpart without a fraction of hesitation is machoness , a man can adore a parrot/cat more than a labrador without being petrified of not qualifying menism criteria is machoness. Crying out loud , expelling your emotions without suppressing them because of menistic standards indicates machoness , if a man wants to slide in the field of fashion and design without the fears of taunts is machoness

And last but the not the least he has the balls to speak against the wrong, pinpoint the inhumane deeds of society and vehemently takes a stance against the atrocities being committed on the depressed classes , women or weaker sections of society is the very new definition of "BEING MACHO

And even though I don't expect any massive change among the societal mentality through this article but then even if a fraction pays heed and grabs the very context of the former article by Heart , and makes sincere effort to drill through their rigid and Fractured mentality trying viewing the men's world with a fresh viewpoint , then it's a sign of victory for me.